Pet Memorials: Honoring the Companions We Love

Pet Memorial Pet Remembrance Tee Rogers Pet Funeral Director

Tee is an IAOPCC Certified Pet Funeral Director, and InSight Certified Funeral Celebrant, and a certified Humanist Celebrant.

Losing a beloved pet can be one of the most profound losses we experience. For many of us, our pets are family, companions, and even emotional support. While grief for pets is deeply felt, society often doesn’t give us permission to mourn them as openly as we might a human loved one. Pet memorial ceremonies are a powerful way to honor their lives and the unconditional love they shared with us.

Why Pet Memorials Matter
Creating a dedicated space and time to remember a pet is an important step in the grieving process. Memorials give us an opportunity to reflect on the joy our pets brought to our lives, connect with others who understand the depth of our bond, and begin to heal.

Creative Ideas for Pet Memorials
As a Certified Pet Funeral Director with the IAOPCC, I’ve learned how meaningful personalized pet remembrance ceremonies can be. Here are some unique ways to honor your pet’s memory:

  • Memory Walks: Organize a walk along your pet’s favorite trail or park, sharing stories and memories along the way.
  • Pet Cemetery: Graveside service and burial in a final resting place, whether a dedicated pet cemetery or a pet memorial area of your property.
  • Memory Keepsakes: Incorporate items like their collar, a paw print, or their favorite toy into the ceremony.
  • Plant a Living Tribute: Plant a tree or flowers in their favorite spot in the yard as a lasting memorial.
  • Art and Creativity: Commission a portrait, create a scrapbook, or write a poem that captures their spirit.
  • Candlelight Ceremonies: Invite friends and family to light candles and share a moment of silence or reflection, or share a story.
  • Scattering Ceremony: committing your pet’s ashes in a place they loved to play, or in a place that has special meaning in your relationship with your pet.

How a Celebrant Can Help
A Celebrant composes, choreographs, and officiates a ceremony. An end-of-life ceremony (for a person or a pet) serves an essential purpose: to celebrate the love and light they brought into our lives, to acknowledge the deep loss and grief we feel, and to create space to lean on each other for support.

Whether it’s a quiet, intimate moment with close family or a larger gathering with friends and neighbors, a thoughtful ceremony can be an important part of healing.

A Pet Memorial Service is, at its heart, like any other end-of-life ceremony—deeply personal and meaningful. It might include:

  • Welcome and Opening: The Celebrant offers comforting words to set the tone, acknowledging the significance of your pet’s life and the impact of their loss.
  • Meaningful Readings: These might include poetry, prose, or even a passage that reflects the unique bond you shared. For example, a reading of The Rainbow Bridge or a poem like My Forever Pet by Susanne Taylor.
  • Eulogy: A heartfelt reflection on your pet’s life—their quirks, their love, and the memories they left behind. As a Celebrant, I can help you compose this.
  • Sharing of Memories: Friends and family may be invited to share their favorite stories or moments with your pet, creating a tapestry of love and remembrance.
  • Rituals: Simple acts can add profound meaning to the ceremony. Examples might include:
    • A scattering of ashes in a favorite spot.
    • A dedication of the pet’s collar with a formal presentation to the owner as a keepsake.
    • Planting a tree or flowers in their honor.
    • Attendees each placing a memorial rock in a garden, planting a flower, or holding hands around the final resting place for a moment of silence.

As a professional pet funeral director and Celebrant, my role is to guide you through this process, ensuring the ceremony reflects your pet’s personality and your unique bond. Together, we can create a space for healing, connection, remembrance, and honor your pet’s legacy in a way that is meaningful to you and your loved ones.

Our pets may leave our lives, but they never leave our hearts.
A pet memorial is a beautiful way to celebrate the love and companionship they gave us, ensuring their legacy lives on in meaningful ways.

If you’re considering a pet memorial or need help planning one, I’m here to help. Let’s work together to honor the life of your cherished companion. You can reach me at 407-608-9242 if i can be of service to your family.


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Atheists have funerals.

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Diverse Secular Identities
Some Diverse Secular Identities and Terms (click for larger image)

I was chatting in a group and someone interrupted to say hello. He’d recognized me as the officiant at a recent non-religious funeral. The conversation shifted abruptly. Someone in the group said they didn’t know that Atheists would even have funerals: “Why would they?”

I’ve had people tell me they didn’t understand marriage in the context of Atheism. Or secular baby welcoming / baby naming rituals that may take the place of baptisms. And yes, some think that one who doesn’t share their faith wouldn’t experience funerals, celebrations of life, or memorials in a meaningful way. Through a narrow lens, those moments may be steeped in the traditions of a specific faith.

Ritual is something ubiquitously human. It’s a significant experience across diverse perspectives. All feel love for others and grieve losses, support friends and family in their grief, and may find meaning in gathering together to say goodbye and honor someone lost. Yes, Atheists have funerals.

Beautiful moments of connection, like the private conversation that followed “Why would they?”, can build mini-bridges. But they’re also a broader reminder that barriers to diverse exposure (like limiting educational conversations about diversity) can create chasms between us and add to heavy, lonely burdens that people around us are carrying.

Mini bridges help, but larger bridges are needed.

A systemic bias in deathcare

The deathcare industry is, like many other service-focused industries, imbued with faith-bias. That means that people of secular and religious minority identities who are experiencing grief may also face, or fear facing, discrimination, identity washing, othering, silencing, harassment, faith bullying, being outed/coming out, and other challenges – at one of their most vulnerable moments.

It often comes as a surprise, even to those who face these Sisyphean challenges every day. Deathcare is a subject many people avoid in general. And further, very few consider in advance how LGBTQIA+ or secular or religious minority identity might impact them or their family when a death occurs. Far fewer make a plan, identify affirming providers and professionals in advance, and provide practical and legal tools that make things easier for loved ones.

There’s enough drama & trauma for families at such a difficult time. No one wants to be preyed on in a time of grief and no one should be forced to pray, pretend to pray, or defer to someone else’s g/God(s) at a time of grief and loss. Every person of every religious, secular, and spiritual identity – and LGBTQIA+ identity – deserves to be authentically honored in their deathcare.

Planning ahead is self-care.

You can plan for inclusive services by providing direction in your planning documents about, for example, using a certified Humanist Celebrant and how to locate one (links are below). This is important because the funeral home professional you’re working with may not be aware – or willing to acknowledge – that this resource exists. Remember that a Humanist Celebrant or Chaplain may be able to help you through the entire process, potentially even joining your meetings with the funeral home and cemetery if you invite them to.

If you’re intentional, open, and determined you can find inclusive providers who won’t try to “save” you on your deathbed or “bless” your body without consent. You can vet funeral providers (funeral homes, funeral directors, cemeteries, etc. – even hospices or hospitals) to ensure your perspective is welcomed and you and your family will be treated with respect when it matters most. You’re going to put your trust in someone – by planning ahead you have greater control over who that will be.

Vetting companies & professionals can be as simple as glancing over their website and social media shares, and/or disclosing your identity to them. Listen to the messages they promote or how they respond to you. How does what they say make you feel? Trust your gut. If the shoe doesn’t fit, it’s not your shoe.

And know that there are advocates and allies willing to help. You are not alone. If you have questions about inclusive deathcare, whether for a current experience or for planning ahead, i’m a call or text away at 407-608-9242.

RESOURCES

  • Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives – a free download fill-in-the-blank style guide and mental health and other resources for those in the LGBTQIA+ and minority RSSI (Religious, Secular, and Spiritual Identity) communities.
  • The Humanist Society – contact certified Humanist Celebrants, Chaplains, Lay Leaders, and Invocators.
  • National Consortium for Inclusion in Deathcare – This is a Big Bridge under construction – an emerging group of inclusion-focused deathcare professionals and researchers working to establish support for one another and resources for everyone. Contact 407-608-9242 to get connected.
  • More information & resources for Humanist and non-religious end-of-life ceremonies: https://humanistcelebrantorlando.com/memorials-life-celebrations/
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Humanist Celebrants Officiate Unique Ceremonies

Wedding planning is joyful – but already stressful without worrying about identity discrimination. Most officiants are inclusive, and if unable to perform your ceremony they can provide referrals to someone who can help.

However, some couples have less friendly experiences. I hear from clients who have approached wedding officiants and been turned away – some have been hung up on, called names, or had officiants try to “save” them when they requested a secular or other non-traditional ceremony.

Whether an LGBTQIA+ wedding ceremony, a custom-written Wiccan ceremony, an Atheist ceremony, a Dueling Officiants Ceremony (one religious, one not…), a “sign & go” couple-only wedding at a Starbucks, or any other meaningful way to honor the unique journey of a couple…a Humanist Celebrant can help.

Did you know … there’s a whole network of ordained Humanist Celebrants right here in Central Florida – a hidden gem of resources at your fingertips.

What to ask your Officiant regarding your identity

Interview your officiant – make sure they’re right for the job. First and foremost, be direct. You want an officiant who is comfortable with your request and who can provide helpful, meaningful suggestions for creating the ceremony of your dreams. Say exactly what you need so that you can make sure the officiant is the right fit for you. There are lots of officiants out there – remember the saying, “if the shoe doesn’t fit, it’s not your shoe.”.

Here are a few great questions i’ve gotten from couples:

“We are a Wiccan couple and will be having our ceremony in the forest at night. What are some ways we can honor our Wiccan tradition in our ceremony?”

“I am Baptist and my family is also. My partner and her family are Atheists. What are some things we can do in the ceremony that bridge both families and honor everyone?”

“My fiance is a transitioning man who uses they/them pronouns. We want to make sure you can honor that.”

“We were married as Catholics 10 years ago, but want to do a vow renewal because we are both Atheists now and want a wedding that reflects our values. Can you help us?”

“We are a bdsm couple and will be having a themed ceremony. Are you comfortable with this?”

In our hearts we’ve been married for years – we just want to do the paperwork. Can we just do that without any ceremony?

“We know you’re non-religious, but we want to have some religious readings in our ceremony. How do you accommodate that?”

More than Ceremonies

Humanist Celebrants can legally perform weddings as well as preside over other ceremonies such as celebrations of life/memorials, coming-of-age, butterfly ceremonies (transgender re-naming ceremonies), and baby welcomings (alternative to religious baptism).

Humanist Celebrants are the clergy of the non-religious, having the same rights as theistic clergy, allowing them to legally perform weddings under the jurisdiction of the law within their state, provide secular spiritual care, and are subject to “clergy” confidentiality.

Humanist Celebrants and Chaplains can also provide Humanist (secular) visits to those in hospitals, hospices, and prisons. The chaplains/clergy in those facilities may be inter- or non-denominational, but may still use religious language or not have an understanding of non-religious identities (or minority identities, such as Wiccan, Humanistic Judaism, Cultural Catholicism, etc.).

Have you seen the Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives? It’s free to download and offers a reflection on how our identities inform our deathcare wishes.

Learn more: http://IADDresource.org

What is a Humanist Celebrant?

From The Humanist Society: “Humanist Celebrants provide meaningful, distinctly personal, and professional humanist ceremonies for a wide range of life’s major events and milestones. A celebrant can help commemorate the welcoming of a child, coming-of-age, gender transitions, commitment unions, weddings, memorials, and so much more!  Our celebrants are committed to humanism and not bound by a traditional religion and its dogma, therefore they are able to provide custom-made ceremonies imbued with personal meaning and honor the shared humanity and values of those involved.”

Want more info? Let’s connect.

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Obituaries: what, when, and how.

What is an Obituary?

The word obituary comes from the Latin obitus, going in the direction of ruin or death; sunset.

Whether a simple announcement of a death or a lengthy tribute, an obituary is a public posting by a family that a death has occurred, a public record of the person’s life and legacy, and/or an announcement of the final arrangements and services for those who may wish to attend.

Most are published online these days so family and friends everywhere can access the tribute. Some are still also published in newspapers; however, these tend to be shorter and more factual. Online tributes can include multiple photos, a more in-depth colloquy of a life lived, and comments, thoughts, and photos posted by friends and families. Some obituary sites are perpetual, others only post the listing for a finite increment of time, such as 90 days, to save server space.

The obituary may be used in various ways:

  • as the public announcement of a death
  • as the eulogy at a service (though eulogies may be more detailed than obituary)
  • printed in programs that are given at the service
  • framed or otherwise memorialized as a keepsake for the family
  • posted on or linked in family genealogy sites
  • included in a family genealogy album

Should you write your own?

Yes, you should. In my work as a planning advisor in the funeral industry, i’ve seen how difficult it is for families to write the obituary for a loved one they have just lost. Arduous and heart-wrenching, the composition of the obituary can even cause discord among loved ones – what goes in, what doesn’t, how things are worded, which photo to use, etc. When you’re pre-planning to protect your family, every burden you can take off their shoulders is a gift.

As a celebrant, i may write eulogies and obituaries or help families with that process. As a funeral & cemetery planning advisor, i encourage my clients to write out bullet points or a draft of their obituary and keep it updated. And if you don’t want an obit at all (and some don’t), make sure your family knows that.

I recently worked with someone terminally ill who wanted to write their own obituary so that their spouse wouldn’t have to do it. We went through multiple drafts, and it was very difficult, but it was so important to them to protect their spouse from having to go through that – and to make sure that certain parts of their life were highlighted. As we go through life, what is important to us changes; those around us at the time we pass may not recall or think to include aspects of our life that were extremely meaningful to us.

Obituary elements

An obituary can be difficult to think about – how do you capture an entire life in a few paragraphs? The obituary becomes the final public record of our lives.

An obituary is not required, and some who have few family members or who lived very private lives may not have one at all.

Most obituaries at a minimum contain the person’s name, age, date, and place of passing, city and state of residence (and home town, if different), and name of spouse/partner and children. They may list more relatives and are usually separated into “survived by” and “pre-deceased by” lists. They include memorial information such as the name of the funeral home and the date, time, and place for the viewing and service(s).

The formula is generally: decedent information (name, dates, and places of birth and death), family, personal information/life story, and information about the service.

Talk to others – no matter how well you knew your loved one, you will learn amazing new things about them by asking their friends and family members for their favorite stories and memories. Even if you are pre-writing your own – consider reaching out. What you learn about you may surprise you! Scroll down for more ways to personalize an obituary or eulogy.

Example: Sam Smith passed away on April 10th, 2022, after a long battle with cancer, surrounded by loved ones at home. Sam was active in volunteering for the Breast Cancer Society throughout their illness, leading fundraising initiatives and teams for awareness walks. Before cancer became a focus, Sam had been an avid volunteer with the local animal shelter. They are survived by two Great Danes (Bobby and Doggo) and a large “framily” (friend family). Sam was pre-deceased by spouse Jordan, parents Drew and Jesse Smith, and multiple rescue animals nurtured and loved through hospice care. A celebration of life sunrise service will be held Friday, July 3, at 6:30 a.m. at Riverside Park, followed by breakfast and a memorial tree planting. Donations to the Breast Cancer Society or to Pat’s Animal Rescue in Sam’s honor are appreciated.

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Making it Personal

Here are some things to reflect on as you write an obituary or eulogy:

  • What was their preferred name and pronouns? Are there any nicknames, monikers, “go-by’s” that they would want to be included?
  • The dates that bracket “the dash” – the birth date and death date. City & state (and/or country) of birth and death.
  • Where did they consider “home” to be? Where else did they live that was a significant part of their life?
  • Include the cause of death? For example, “after a 10-year battle with cancer…” can tie into requests at the end for donations to cancer research.
  • Origins – culture and heritage
  • Parents’ names and places of birth.
  • Living family members (siblings, children, grandchildren, grandparents, friends, pets, etc.)
  • Deceased family members (siblings, children, grandchildren, grandparents, friends, pets, etc.)
  • Marriage(s) – date(s) of marriage(s) and spouse name(s).
  • Love story – how they met, where they married, significant moments in their marriage
  • Military service – branch, years, rank, wars served in, memberships such as VFW, and other important information.
  • Education – high school, college or tech school, field of study
  • Awards, honors, and recognitions
  • Character & quirks
  • What did they enjoy? Hobbies, passions, sports, activities, etc.
  • Profession / Occupation – job title, career, stories, accomplishments, other jobs held in life. Why did they go into this occupation or why was it important to them?
  • The “other job” – How did they invest their personal time? Whether volunteer work, helping neighbors, or a hobby that was like a piece of their soul -what were their vocations in addition to their paid profession?
  • Community involvement and memberships – Were they involved in any charitable organizations? congregational membership in religious, secular, or spiritual organizations? political, fraternal, or other affiliations?
  • What made your loved one unique? What did people always notice about them?
  • What would they feel is their greatest legacy? were they most proud of (accomplishments, the difference they made in the world)
  • Their quote: what is something they always said? or something they would want their loved ones to know? What is one thing they hope others learned from the story of their life?
  • Did they have a personal mission statement, dearly held values, or other ethical/internal guideposts?
  • Three words that sum up your loved one’s life.
  • Their favorite quote or short poem

Obituary FAQ

Q: What about Identity Theft? I’ve heard that you should never post an obituary because predators use them for stealing information.

A: It is true (and very sad) that the theft of deceased identities is quite common. However, much of the information you provide in the obituary is available by other means. You may want to be careful what you include, such as avoiding exact dates of birth and death, mother’s maiden name, etc. You should definitely have information security in mind as you write an obituary.

Your funeral director will have filed with Social Security and given you a list of things you need to do after your loss; getting those things done reduces the risk to your family, as does having an Estate Planning Attorney to guide you. There are also identity theft services that guard deceased identities.


Q: When should the Obituary be published?

A: This is usually done very quickly, as it often contains information about a service that may be coming up very soon. Some will post a death notice first so that the factual information is there (name, date of death, service information), giving themselves a few days to compose, or hire a writer to compose, the full obituary.


Q: I have to write an obituary for my son, who was gay and involved in political activism. These were both VERY important in his life, but some of our family do not approve and I don’t want to cause any fights.

A. oof. That’s a challenge i see often for families of LGBTQIA+ individuals and minority Religious, Secular, or Spiritual Identities (RSSI). We want to authentically honor the life of our loved one without tearing the family apart. Only you can make the decision. Someone who was actively involved & making their voice heard for a cause may want the message they amplified present in their life story.

Whether as simple as honoring preferred pronouns, as subtle as leaving out religious references, or as loud and explosive as celebrating their accomplishments as an activist, this can be a difficult decision to make. If they had written it, what would they have done?

There’s a free workbook called the Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives intended to assist us in reflecting on how our own LGBTQ+ or RSSI identity will inform our near-death care and deathcare, but it may help you in reflecting on your loved one’s identity as well.


Q. Can i write an obituary for my pet?

A. Absolutely. Just as there are cemeteries dedicated to pets, there are websites dedicated to pet obituaries such as Heaven’s Pets and Pet Heaven. Sadly, most use “heaven” or some other faith-biased reference.. Your pet crematory may also have a memorial page. Some will include the pet obituary as part of their blog, on a family genealogy site, or in a personal scrapbook of obituaries.

Writing or reading an obituary about someone or something you love who/that has been lost can be a healing exercise, helping you reflect on the value they brought to your life and the difference their life made in the world.

Q. What’s the best format to list family members?

A. They are listed by closest relation first: spouse (current first if listing multiple spouses), children (oldest to youngest), grandchildren, great-grandchildren, parents, and siblings. You list the name of the relative with their spouse’s name in parentheses. For example, Sam is survived by their spouse Hao Smith, children Kit (Lex) Smith-Livingood and Tommie Smith, and two Great Danes, Bobby and Doggo. Sam is predeceased by parents Drew and Jesse Smith and infant child Ollie.


Q. Is humor in an obituary appropriate?

A. Obituaries and eulogies should reflect and honor the person, but also be respectful of those reading or receiving the words. Some may not want the final story of their life to be dour. I read one that began… “Pete was a jokester who kept us all in high spirits…” and the obituary contained multiple jokes and puns, tastefully presented.

Identity Affirming Deathcare Resrouces

Cover art by Armen Silverbach

Diversity & Death: Identity Affirming Deathcare Planning

by Tee Rogers

UPDATE: The workbook has been published. Download your free copy at IADDresource.org.

Every identity should be authentically honored as the person nears death and is cared for after death and everyone deserves identity-affirming professionals to serve them and their families at such a difficult time. In this article, you’ll find Identity Affiming Directives & Workshops, Grief Resources, and more.

Grief for loved ones lost and anxieties about our own mortality are both challenges that each of us faces and understands. We experience them individually and uniquely, yet collectively and together. The time when we lose a loved one – or our loved ones lose us – is often described as a blur of chaos.

Planning ahead gives us peace of mind for ourselves and those we care about. Financially, emotionally, and logistically – we can ensure that when our time comes, things fall into place. There are professionals who can help – estate planning attorneys, financial planners, funeral and cemetery professionals, etc.  If you haven’t yet, you should meet with each of those.

The LGBTQ+ and religious minority & secular identity communities encounter additional stressors such as finding planning professionals who are DEI fluent (or, at the very least, accepting), ensuring identity expression will be honored at the time of their death, finding identity-affirming deathcare providers, and knowing that loved ones can find support at their time of grief.

Honoring Personal Identity: Where do we turn when we have concerns about a diverse identity that requires, say, the use of certain pronouns during a eulogy, specific attire for the viewing, certain blessings or rituals, designating someone other than next of kin to handle final arrangements, or secular-only language at the time of near-death …who helps us with those directives?

Grief Support: When a loss occurs, where do grieving loved ones turn when traditional support systems are not the right fit?

There are resources addressing these concerns. Let’s talk about them.

1. Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives

Thinking about deathcare for ourselves can be difficult – even traumatic. Some face the added stress of wondering whether that identity will be honored as they near death and at their services after. Will the decisions made for us when our voice can no longer be heard affirm or negate our identity?

A daughter who didn’t find out until too late that her father’s religion prohibited embalming; she feels tremendous guilt for not knowing this and honoring his faith. A partner of more than 20 years who lost their loved one, when both had agreed on final arrangements, but the family took over after death and did something different. Transgender and other non-binary presenting individuals who fear being misrepresented in death. Non-religious individuals not wanting religious rituals when approaching, and after, their death. There are so many heartbreaking stories, so much stress and fear, so many families suffering guilt or even estrangement after of the stress of end-of-life decisions.

Planning ahead can alleviate some of the stress of wondering what will happen, as well as providing a guide for those who will be responsible for caring for us – loved ones, hospice & hospital teams, and deathcare professionals. There are many guides, books, and tools out there, but none address issues specific to diverse identities – until now.

The Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives© workbook is a free tool designed to walk you through identity-related concerns and provide you the opportunity to make your own decisions. All LGBTQ+ and Religious, Secular, and Spiritual Identities (RSSI) can use this workbook as a self-exploration as well as a directives document.

Resource Page: http://IADDresource.org

The workbook was created in collaboration by Matthew Rosenthal, Esq., an attorney who helps families with estate planning and Tee Rogers, a Humanist Celebrant and funeral and cemetery planning professional.

Identity Affirming Deathcare Planning Workshops

These free workshops are safe-space discussions where we will explore identity-related challenges that may be faced during end-of-life services and ways that simple planning can mitigate frustration and pain for loved ones.

Groups, organizations, and businesses can schedule these free workshops.

Next Scheduled Workshop

August 11th, 2022, 6 – 7:30 p.m.
The Center (946 N Mills Ave, Orlando, FL 32803).
Registration Required:
http://IADD-081122.eventbrite.com

2. LGBTQ+ and Secular Grief Resources

Some diverse identities – specifically, LGBTQ+ and Atheist, Humanist, and other secular / non-religious identities – may be turned away from grief support groups, therapists, and other lifelines. If they are accepted, they may find the situation to be unaffirming and unhelpful – or even harmful.

As a deathcare professional, I’ve worked with bereaved same-sex and/or non-religious spouses or partners and other family members who sought help, but both support groups and professionals turned them away without providing direction for finding more appropriate care. One person shared that they felt like no one could help them after a support group rejected them and when their funeral home could not provide them with any alternatives, they gave up seeking help.

As a Humanist Celebrant, I’ve spoken to families declined service by religious officiants for weddings, funerals, and other support. At important life moments the impact of rejection, compounded by not knowing where to turn next for help, can be difficult to navigate.

It is essential that people know there are identity-affirming resources in our community. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

And for professionals and providers, these wonderful resources in our community are available for you to make referrals for your clients.

Find LGBTQ+ and Secular Grief resources here: https://humanistcelebrantorlando.com/identity-affirming-resources/

Identity Affirming Final Arrangements Planning

There are so many heartbreaking stories of how people of diverse identities experience the funeral industry. DEI Fluent and affirming professionals can help you plan so that your identity-related wishes can be known and honored and your loved ones will not face family rifts and battles over final arrangements.

Matthew Rosenthal, Esq. of Rosenthal Meyer, PLLC provides comprehensive advanced estate planning that solves many of the issues that arise after a death occurs. I (Tee Rogers) am a funeral and cemetery planning advisor with Dignity Memorial. Together, Attorney Rosenthal and I created the Identity Affirming Deathcare Directives© workbook and we both serve in our Central Florida community by providing identity-affirming planning services.

Contact us for private consultations and assistance.

Follow-up and Further Information

If you would like further information on any of these resources or on funeral & cemetery pre-planning or celebrant services, contact Tee Rogers at tee.rogers@outlook.com or 407-608-9242.

For information on identity-affirming estate planning and legal guidance or questions, contact Matthew Rosenthal, Esq. at mrosenthal@rosenthalmeyer.com or 407-504-9725 or visit rosenthalmeyer.com.