Conversation with an Atheist couple
One memorable conversation from this wedding show was an Atheist couple who had spoken to several officiants – all of whom had turned them down. They were discouraged and became leery of reaching out to celebrants.
This is a story i hear far too often; people who are hung up on (or worse) by officiants when they ask about having a ceremony without religion. For some, being non-religious has caused the loss of family, friends, jobs, even spouses. It can be a very difficult subject. When talking to a celebrant about a very important moment in life’s journey and a celebration of love, the celebrant should have one focus: how to make it perfect for you.
No matter your religious, secular, or spiritual perspective, you should have a ceremony that reflects YOUR values and is meaningful to you.
There are many non-religious celebrants – you can find them through The Humanist Society website among other sources. You can also use a notary to seal your marriage and have anyone perform the actual ceremony (you’d just need to make your declarations to the notary before they can sign your marriage certificate).
If you’re looking for options, any Humanist Celebrant would be glad to talk to you and help you find the best way for your wedding to be perfect for YOU.